RUTH GONZALEZ got the idea for her soothing socks from a co-worker, who gave her a Christmas present: microwavable socks to ease her aches and pains.

The concept stuck with her for more than a decade before Gonzalez began making and handing out her own soothing socks five years ago. “I wanted to do something different,” says Gonzalez, a nurse with the New Mexico Early Childhood Education and Care Department’s Families First program in Roswell.

The long, soft socks, which take less than five minutes to make, are stuffed with millet seed mixed with rice and can be heated or cooled for physical ailments. “When I hear that someone needs some, I’ll work in the evenings and weekends, and my grandbabies help,” says Gonzalez, who has given away more than 500 soothing socks at local markets and health care events.

Gonzalez’s daughter Elissia Hammock, an occupational therapist who works with children in South Carolina, even took a few socks to try with her young patients dealing with anxiety and ADHD. “I’m always looking for stuff that’s weighted and has sensory input,” says Hammock, who lays the socks across laps or shoulders. “They’re just perfect for my little friends.”

Hammock also gave one to her two-year-old son. “He loves wearing it while he’s sitting in the car seat,” she says. “It helps whenever he’s a little antsy. He puts it on himself and just likes to squeeze it.”

Raised in Roswell, Gonzalez is one of 14 children. In 2022, the family lost her brother Daniel to an accidental fentanyl overdose. “We got a phone call early in the morning that they were bringing him into the ER,” she says. “It just knocked us off our feet.”

Ruth Gonzalez was inspired by a co-worker's gift and her passion for community support and substance abuse awareness.

To keep his memory alive, Gonzalez and her family wanted to help create positive change in a state that ranks in the top 10 of overdose deaths per capita. “A lot of times, people are embarrassed or ashamed to speak up about having a family member that deals with these issues,” Gonzalez says. “I wasn’t ashamed.”

Gonzalez and her daughters, sisters, and nieces started a 5K run/walk called Road to Recovery at Roswell’s Wool Bowl to raise awareness for substance abuse. Their motto, “You are worth recovering,” is a message Gonzalez wants to continue to spread in Roswell and beyond. “There is help out there,” she says.

In just its second year, the January event drew about 60 participants and raised $1,200 for the Chaves County Health Council, which provides mental health and substance abuse programs and education. “The money goes into those programs to help with raising awareness,” she says.

Gonzalez’s socks get handed out to every Road to Recovery participant. “I’ve made it a signature item for our race,” she says. The socks serve as both a physical aid and a reminder that others around you might be struggling with mental health issues or addiction. “Find that one person that you can talk to,” she recommends for those who might need help. “A lot of people are always open.”

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